When your ex is dating someone new

If your ex dislikes you, they probably wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole.

But if they still have feelings for you, all they’d want to do is coil around you and wrap you up with their hands.

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Does your ex make it a point to share their gloomy attitude with everyone else in the world? In fact, they’d be warmer and more loving than you can ever remember.

Do they reveal signs of missing you on Facebook with status updates like “my life feels so empty” or “I’m so tired of this world” or worse “goodbye, cruel world! If your ex links to “your song” on their public pages, or hangs out in all the places both of you used to spend time in as a twosome, chances are, they’re crying for your attention. If your ex wants you back, they’d call you more often than a regular friend. If your ex speaks in a very soft tone and whispers caringly and lovingly to you even when both of you are just friends, there’s still oh-so-much love in the air, even if it’s only one sided.

A relationship can drift in so many directions after a break up, and it’s never easy to know where your relationship is heading. Or you could just pick one out of the several possibilities there is.

[Read: 16 scenarios when you can and cannot stay friends with an ex] And that’s what makes breaking up with someone way more complicated than falling in love with someone. When you break up, you’re setting yourself up for a whole new beginning.

Well, you could get back with your ex if you’d want to *not advisable though*, or you could shut your mind up and move on anyway.

Nevertheless, it always feels good to know that you’re being missed by a once-special-someone, doesn’t it?

And even before you know it, you’ll be able to realize if your ex still has feelings for you in no time. If your ex still likes you, big chances are, they’ll avoid dating anyone else at least for a long while.

And even if they do go out on a date with someone secretly, they’ll probably hush it up or tell your friends not to tell you *because it’ll hurt you*.

Moving on is hard, and the temptation of getting back together and giving the relationship another chance becomes more tempting than ever.

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