My ex husband dating younger woman

This I because when someone first becomes enamoured, we can’t stop talking about them so your alarm bells will have rung.

When he stops mentioning her, you think the madness has passed and you can breathe again.

If he is having an affair (emotional, physical or both), it is better to bring things to a head rather than hoping things will get better when he’s changed jobs, the kids go back to school or Chelsea win the cup.

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Your partner getting caught up in social media is probably a sign that he is unhappy about something but believes it’s pointless to say anything as he expects to be attacked or his concerns dismissed.

Ask him whether he’s fed up and whether he thinks you relationship is in a rut or not. Actually, you do know what the issue might be because he’s mentioned it a hundred times before (but you’ve downgraded or dismissed it).

Perhaps you’d like to make the bedroom a smartphone/tablet-free area, so you can concentrate on each other – chatting over the day or having sex together.

What about meal times, when you’re watching the TV or going out together?

There are no right or wrong answers when it comes to smartphone etiquette but what gets our attention is what thrives.

Think about what message you are giving to each other if you routinely put interacting with others on your phone over your relationship.

You’ve most probably tried to tackle your husband texting another woman but nothing has really changed.

In my experience of thirty years helping couples as a marital therapist, you’ve fallen into one or more of the following traps.

We separated for one week and after discussions and an agreement that he would not contact this woman we decided to get back together.

One month later, I checked his phone and found he had saved the woman’s number under another name and had been phoning her constantly, and texting her at 2am when I went to bed and also throughout the day – even when he went to the shops to get nappies.

If you’re still at a loss, discuss whether the kids take up too much of your time and the state of your sex life.

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