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One said to me, "I identify myself as bisexual, but I feel guilty for stepping out of my marriage to find the intimacy I crave.

He agreed that he was sexually attracted to men but socially attracted to his wife.

Another gay man who once had considered himself bisexual said, "I struggled with loneliness and a lack of emotional connection to my wife.

Many scientists prefer a definition based exclusively on attraction because behavior and identity are more fluid.

For some behavior and self-definitions may evolve over time.

Once he aligned his sexual attraction and his behavior, he became uncomfortable with the label "bi," but he remained hesitant to leap toward a complete gay self-identity.

Bisexual activists get very angry when others say that bisexuality is nothing more than a place to park until one becomes gay.

Bisexual activists are attempting to do the same with the term bisexual but they struggle to find recognition and social acceptance of bisexuality.

In a culture that still values monogamy as the ideal in relationships, it is hard to get past the issue that all bisexuals who act on their sexual attraction are guilty of infidelity.

They are unwelcomed by the gay community; some would say they are bisexuals by default.

One said, "I want to have a good relationship with guys, kinda best friends, but my friends have to be bisexual because if we have the same situation, we can relate to each other.

Many bisexuals believe that they have found integrity and authenticity, an alignment of their attractions, behaviors and identity.

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