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Others do it within the context of a monogamous relationship.One woman on Fet Life wrote that she induced lactation to nurse her husband but, as he travels a lot, she shares her milk with other men when he is out of town to keep up her milk supply."We may cuddle because of the oxytocin and it's a nice way to relax and keep up [milk] supply.
"Even within the alternative communities, a lot of people don't understand it," Ellie explains. "It all comes down to one basic premise: your kink is not my kink and that's OK."Part of ANR's taboo stems from some fundamental misunderstandings about who participates in it – and what it means.
Where the "ick" factor comes in for many people – and where the triggering nature of the act lies for some survivors of childhood sexual abuse – is that it's perceived to be sexualizing an act that's associated with babies or child rearing.
Chelsea*, a 38-year-old woman who is in an ANR with her wife, decided to induce lactation two years ago in an effort to help with her wife's chronic health problems after medical interventions failed.
And still others have breastfeeding relationships that are completely non-sexual in nature.
People's reasons for entering ANRs can be wildly different.
Some are women who decided to induce lactation for their own reasons – perhaps they were unable to have children and lactating makes them feel more connected to their femininity, or provides some sort of emotional satisfaction — and enjoy sharing their milk with partners."If you're sexually active and nursing, breast milk is a part of your life all the time," she explains.The same oxytocin that's released during nursing is produced during arousal and orgasm, meaning that someone who is lactating to nurse their baby may also experience the release of milk during sex with their partner.Prolactin, the other hormone produced by lactation, has also been shown to lower stress in the person producing it, with lactating women demonstrating less intense responses to adrenaline.Chelsea says that, in her relationship, nursing isn't always a sexual act."It's a nice way to relax or fall asleep at the end of the day," says Chelsea.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating