Dating with married
You’ve even heard whispers of them thinking maybe he has a secret family somewhere else or is a closeted homosexual, and that’s why he hasn’t proposed. A lot of people assume you just got married at some point and they missed the memo.
It’s a stamp that says, “I’m a solid, reliable, loyal person.” But telling people you’ve been dating for seven, eight, nine years…can feel funny.
The words “Dating” and “A decade” don’t seem to go together.
You still want to celebrate your love, even though you aren’t married.
Heck—you’ve been dating for far longer than some couples have been married, but they’re over there, throwing their cute little one-year anniversary parties.
We live in a time when plenty of couples date for a long time before getting married, or simply never get married.
A lot of people are taking their cues from the Swedes, who simply enter into domestic partnerships but never file any paperwork with the city.
You’ve been there for each other through illness and very difficult times. Sometimes your partner notices when you feel bad for yourself.
Or, he becomes aware that your friends feel sorry for you or question his love for you.
Then he feels bad, as if he’s somehow done something wrong by doing exactly what you two agreed on—not getting married. Based on the way you see some people take their spouses for granted or speak poorly about their spouses, sometimes you’re really grateful you aren’t married. If you do ever become engaged, it will probably be over some mundane, everyday moment now.
While you mostly don’t feel negative feelings about marriage, sometimes you feel that you really dodged a bullet by not getting married.
It’s quite common to hear a couple say, “We’re practically married” and that seems to be good enough for them.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating