dating after a controlling relationship - Christian dating touching

No, I am not promoting this but do wish that more would think about the power lying dormant when one practices kissing and cuddling without thought.There is much to be said for holding hands and allowing other forms of physical interaction to wait.

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Define what it means The first place to begin in considering this type of interaction is with the couple involved.

Each of them needs to define what it means to them.

I think that it served as an awesome part of our early bonding.

We focused on the total person rather than a part of the anatomy or personal satisfaction.

It was not easy but let me tell you that first kiss… Slow and steady My encouragement is to not be focused on kissing and cuddling but to be open and aware of the total person you are experiencing.

Building relationships is not a hit and run proposition. Physical touch/intimacy should correspond with commitment. This doesn’t mean anything goes if you are engaged. What is your motivation -- power and control, gratifying your own ego, meeting a selfish need, or genuine affection? If you feel convicted of certain behaviors, stop doing them.I am not about laying a guilt trip but in openly sharing the truth to save unnecessary heartache and bodily harm.Think about the power lying dormant Am I recommending that singles do not touch each other in dating? You must decide before you go on the date what your limits will be.

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