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My simplistic explanation on why this behaviour is tolerated comes down to the arranged marriage.

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Reflecting on these experience I felt a bit perplexed, so I typed “Indian Men” into Google.

Up popped a couple of sites linking me to “Hot Men” lists, and of course the obligatory dating site where I could find Indian men.

In my opinion, if they had to go out and attract a woman entirely on their own (and assuming she had unfettered free will and choice in the matter), they would be less likely to indulge in these behaviours. In years past I have come to India for work, and in my current stay in Delhi I am living with family and am privy to another side of India.

Whilst the professional men that I have met don’t have the more distasteful personal habits, I do still find them very difficult to understand.

One commentator in the article argues that the separation of males and females contributes to sexual violence, as women are viewed only as sexual objects.

I am not sure about this as in western societies, where there is no such delineation, women are also viewed as sexual objects and sexual violence still occurs.I don’t understand what the attraction is to shiny pants, thick striped shirts and hair that is carefully patted down to one side and glistening with coconut oil.Don’t get me wrong, I am far less interested in a person’s looks, but a sense of personal style is part of what makes someone attractive in my opinion, and what someone’s mother finds attractive is not usually what a potential mate may find appealing.As a single, hetereosexual woman, its only natural that I spend some time observing the opposite sex as I go through my travels.Whilst I am not looking for a long-term relationship per se, I do enjoy the company of men (platonic and romantic) and it would be nice to make some friends in my new homeland.I think it is easy to blame the mother for men’s shortcomings, but there seems to be a contradiction between this argument and the first article on the level of violence towards women.

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